I want to get along with my brother...but I don't think he does..what do I do?

The more you pay attention to him the worse itll be for you. Seems to me that he is very cold hearted and obviously doesnt know the depth of his so called "hate". Just try and go on with yourself be the adult and ignore him, afterall he is still 14 (the awkward age for boys / girls) AND you are the older sibling he eventually reach out to you..besides Im sure he will need a ride once you get a car!! ;)