This is long but please please help please guys?!:(?

All I can say is I am so sorry it is happening to you too. I don't think you should ignore him though if that is what he is doing to you because I know in my case if I did that he would never speak to me again. However, do not push him as that will drive him away. I can't tell you the best way to approach him (perhaps someone else has the answer to that) but I think you two do need to sit down and figure things out, but it will take time and you need to be patient. I know how you feel though, it's not fair because it is not your fault and you deserve an explanation from him. Sometimes they don't half act immature! I really hope everything works out for you.